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Dear Friends,

In a discussion with the Sadducees of His day about the resurrection (which the Sadducees didn’t believe in), Jesus said:  “You are in error because you do not know the Scriptures or the power of God.” (Matthew 22:29). How true that is of many of us, particularly of life-long churchgoers who just seem never to ‘get it’; for whom the ‘be all’ and ‘end all’ of this whole religious enterprise is to maintain the ‘status quo’ even though the ‘status quo’ may be, as one joker defined it, ‘the mess we’re currently in!’

I came across a TRUE story recently which deeply moves me every time I read it or share it – but I know that there are people reading this who simply won’t believe it is true, because of a deep level cynicism which accepts the popular but wholly unbiblical maxim that ‘a leopard can’t change its spots’ but more so because “they do not know the Scriptures or the power of God.”

Imagine this scene from the Truth and Reconciliation Commission in South Africa after the demolition of apartheid. A frail black woman stands slowly to her feet. She is about 70 years of age. Facing her from across the room are several white police officers, one of whom, Mr. van der Broek, has just been tried and found implicated in the murders of both the woman`s son and her husband some years before.

It was indeed Mr. Van der Broek, it has now been established, who had come to the woman`s home a number of years back, taken her son, shot him at point-blank range and then burned the young man`s body on a fire while he and his officers partied nearby.

Several years later, Van der Broek and his security police colleagues had returned to take away her husband as well. For many months she heard nothing of his whereabouts. Then, almost two years after her husband`s disappearance, Van der Broek came back to fetch the woman herself. How vividly she remembers that evening, going to a place beside a river where she was shown her husband, bound and beaten, but still strong in spirit, lying on a pile of wood. The last words she heard from his lips as the officers poured gasoline over his body and set him aflame were, "Father, forgive them."

And now the woman stands in the courtroom and listens to the confessions offered by Mr. Van der Broek. A member of South Africa`s Truth and Reconciliation Commission turns to her and asks, "So, what do you want? How should justice be done to this man who has so brutally destroyed your family?" "I want three things," begins the old woman, calmly but confidently. "I want first to be taken to the place where my husband`s body was burned so that I can gather up the dust and give his remains a decent burial."

She pauses, then continues. "My husband and son were my only family. I want, secondly, therefore, for Mr. Van der Broek to become my son. I would like for him to come twice a month to the ghetto and spend a day with me so that I can pour out on him whatever love I still have remaining within me."

"And, finally," she says, "I want a third thing. I would like Mr. Van der Broek to know that I offer him my forgiveness because Jesus Christ died to forgive. This was also the wish of my husband. And so, I would kindly ask someone to come to my side and lead me across the courtroom so that I can take Mr. van der Broek in my arms, embrace him and let him know that he is truly forgiven."

As the court assistants come to lead the elderly woman across the room, Mr. van der Broek, overwhelmed by what he has just heard, faints. And as he does, those in the courtroom, friends, family, neighbours — all victims of decades of oppression and injustice — begin to sing, softly, but assuredly, "Amazing grace, how sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me."

How many times have you and I religiously prayed, “Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us” and simply don’t mean a word of what we say, or believe that it’s possible (or necessary?)

Oh well, never mind ‘as it was in the beginning is now and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.’ Or shall we take heart from this remarkable woman’s example and begin to live differently?

Yours uncynically,

John